When it comes to first love, I always feel that it is a particularly pure emotion. I remember a friend of mine who, when she first fell in love, became a completely different person. She used to be a carefree tomboy, but once she started dating, she instantly turned into a delicate girl, even speaking in a soft voice. Every time she saw her boyfriend, her face would turn as red as an apple, and she wouldn't know where to put her hands. She said that feeling was like having a little deer in her heart, ready to jump out at any moment.
In fact, many girls have similar reactions when they first fall in love. For example, they become particularly concerned about the other person's opinions, and can be happy all day or sad all night because of a single word from them. A netizen commented: "May sincerity be met with sincerity, and may love be clear and bright." This really struck a chord with me. In first love, we always hope that the other person can understand our feelings, but we are also afraid that our sincerity will be betrayed. As another netizen said: "Those who have experienced this are afraid of giving their heart to the wrong person, don't put the other person on too high a pedestal." Indeed, in first love, we tend to imagine the other person as too perfect, which can lead to heartbreak.
Another interesting point is that girls in their first love often have a strong desire to share. Whether it's seeing a beautiful cloud, eating a delicious meal, or even encountering a cute dog on the street, they want to tell the other person immediately. My friend was like that, wanting to share every detail of her life with her boyfriend every day. She said it felt like there was an invisible thread between them, pulling them closer no matter how far apart they were.
However, first love isn't all sweetness. Sometimes, the smallest things can make a girl feel like the sky is falling. For example, if the boyfriend doesn't reply to a message in time or forgets an important date, the girl might cry secretly and even doubt whether the other person still loves her. A netizen commented: "It's okay, it's just love-struck brain." Although this is a bit teasing, it's also quite true. In first love, we tend to overthink and magnify small issues.
When it comes to a sense of ritual, girls in their first love really care about it. They look forward to every holiday, every anniversary, and even every ordinary day becoming special. My friend once planned a birthday gift for her boyfriend a month in advance and even made a handmade photo album herself. She said that the process of preparing with all her heart was itself a kind of happiness.
Of course, first love isn't always smooth sailing. A netizen commented: "Got played." Although this is brief, it might hide many heartbreaking stories. In first love, we tend to invest too much, but the return isn't always proportional. But I think even if it doesn't work out in the end, that experience is a valuable part of life. It teaches us how to love and makes us cherish more.
Finally, I want to say that although first love is beautiful, don't take it too seriously. As the netizen said: "Don't put the other person on too high a pedestal." Love is a matter for two people, and only when both are sincere can they go further. I hope every girl experiencing her first love can find someone willing to grow with her.
By the way, if you also have a first love story, feel free to share it in the comments! I'd love to hear about your experiences~