Chatting is the key to pursuing a girl if you want to enhance the relationship. However, many boys become colder and colder the more they chat with girls. What is the reason for this situation? Next, let me analyze why the more chatting with girls, the colder they become. cold.

Why do you become more and more cold when you talk to girls?

1. Blindly please

It is normal to chase girls and give them gifts, but if you are not in a relationship yet At that point, the more you give, the higher the other person's expectations will become. In the end, you will be a moving ATM in her mind. When your gifts can no longer satisfy her, she will become Become indifferent.

In fact, when giving gifts, you should choose some special days, put some thought into it, and give her some sense of ritual, so that the gift is meaningful. The gift itself should not be too expensive, so that she will not feel pressure.

2. No opinion

Do you think so, "She said she wanted to find someone with a lot of common topics. Boyfriend, so of course whatever she says is right." Think about it, you ask a friend you don’t know very well: Do you think these shoes look good? He says they look good, and you ask him if this game is fun? He says it is fun, and you ask him if it is easy to learn how to cook?

< p> He says he is eager to learn, and he will say yes to everything you ask him. This person has no ideas or opinions of his own. Do you want to continue to be friends with him? In turn, do the same to the girl you like, and she will also I don't want to be friends with you.

In fact, if you act more assertive, girls will think that you are mature and reliable, and that you are a boy who can give her a sense of security.

3. Suspicion

Have you ever posted comments like this to a girl’s circle of friends: “Where are you going? Really? You’re still running around during this time!” Maybe you are just concerned, but girls think that I just go downstairs to take a breath and buy some food and snacks at the entrance of the community. Of course I know not to run around. We are all adults, so you don’t need to teach me.

Back when you could run around in the past, maybe if a girl sent a photo of a few people clinking glasses at a bar, you would be even more nervous, and you would tell them: It’s evening, don’t drink too much. Then I wanted to ask who she was with.

When a girl doesn’t like you that much, if you do this, don’t blame the girl for being ungrateful, because it’s really annoying to be asked and told all the time, and she will also think you are nagging. Yes, if you like to make random guesses, you will only become less and less favorable to you.

In fact, no one likes to be educated, and it is not okay to be controlled. I think that people only live a lifetime. Apart from not doing illegal things, there are so many things that cannot be done. It shouldn't be.